Come home “SHEEP”
I was watching channel 8 TV drama and today the story line for today is a guy name Jian er, he marry a wife who is fully dependent on her husband, innocent and definitely faithful. Jian er is a lawyer, a person who is calm, rational, smart, charming and of course he love his wife a lot. But……..
Jian er’s wife, due to her mother influence who kept nagging them to have baby in order to fully tie down her own husband and the thinking that Jian er is having an affair outside thus making Jian er’ wife to feel worried, suspicious. Jian er finally can’t stand both of their suspicious and start kicking a fuss by not going home but a pub instead.
He met a lady who he knew due to a minor incident at the car park, she’s sexy, seductive and both of them start drinking, dancing. What matter the most is Jian er start to have feel for her. His poor wife was at home sitting on the bed, keep calling him and there is no pick up for the call……
This is the topic I wanna share with you guys today. Girls, especially those married housewife describe guys as “crow are all black” meaning there is no guys in the world who don’t flirt outside even if they know they have a wife waiting at home. Some of the wife close and open one eyes, some took a knife and chase to chop their husband, some cried day and night, some commit suicide. Do guys really need to have girls in order to feel that they are really a man?
So what after feeling that they are a man? And problems start arising which is waiting right behind? So there are many example describing guys and one of it is this. Sheep are tire of eating the same grass patch thus finding a greener grass patch and not coming back anymore.
To what I feel and think, there is four possibilities why guys after marriage and going out to flirt.
1) Tire of their wife same body, no feel even when seeing them naked
2) Too much trouble at home
3) To prove that they are not useless
4) Sexual hormone flooding their mind
But guys, especially to those who are married, while facing any of this four points above, please do think about your own kids (if you have any) and your wife at home. All the promises made while you are proposing to your wife. Do all those promises still value till now? Since I have talked so much, I might as well list all those old fashion but important promises while guys are proposing to their wife.
1) Will u marry me? I promise to give you all my love and life to take care of you.
2) Will you marry me? I promise to love you only and through all problems that we will be facing in the future.
And then till the day when they step into the church and the pastor ask
“are you willing to take blah blah blah as your husband / wife and stay with him / her in time of difficulties and love him / her forever?”
“ YES I DO”
Isn’t this all kind of familiar sentence while watching drama or even in real life? 10 years, 20years, 4o years had past, does all this sentence still value after that? While seeing your wife slowly become a “maid like” look, taking care of your kids and house hold responsibilities?
Come home “SHEEP” ……………....................
Still the original grass patch is sweeter than any other that you guys found outside.
I’m speaking up for girls!!
她 就 是 著 名 作 家/ 讲 师 “于 丹”
