Sunday, June 29, 2008
The imperfect perfection ; 6:09 PM
如果。The imperfect perfection.
我们有太多的如果，太多的可能，总让我们拿不下一个绝定。因为每一人都在寻找一个完美的绝定。。。
可是我们都忘记了，在每个完美的人或事的背后都有着它不完美的地方。
May be the world require us to be the best that we can be. Putting us into a situation to work too hard, feeling wear up, feeling depress. Who dream to be cleaner? Who dream to be a floor sweeper? None, every one of us are looking at yourself wearing the lawyer suit, the army uniform, the doctor suit, wearing leather shoe to go to work.
Parent plan for our whole life, to groom us into one who earn big money in the future, with great career. Thinking that this will be the perfect plan for their children and forgetting that there is an imperfection behind this entire perfect plan.
In order to reach our plan, we miss out a lot in our life.
Because of plan, you miss the person that you once love.
Because of plan, you backstab and do all you can to reach the goal.
Because of plan, you spoil your health.
Because of plan, you ruin your family.
Finally, you got your goal...........
And you lost everything by then.
It so windy tonight…
Looking out the window and mind flooded with lots of thought. Thinking if I could capture all the details in life and not achieving my goal, will I willing to do it?
My answer is……..
How about you guys? Maybe, maybe not?
Tip for the day= Life on earth is a lesson to attend in “school”. How much you learn, how much you miss, it all depend on you. Life is a pleasure, life is a present. After all, it how much you are able to absorb and get involved in it by not missing anything. Yesterday is a past, today is a present, that why it call gift.
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Beware ; 5:48 PM
Beware…
Shall continue on, shut up, if you don’t know how to talk.
This week, the topic is on BEWARE. Why should everyone beware on what they are talking?
Everything in life beging with our thought, agree? But sometimes we realize that we even speak without thinking. Even faster than what we think, then people will “Opps, sorry. I say the wrong thing.”
So now, its the thought that is powerful or the words we say is more powerful?
Beware of what you say because words….
1) Can cause argument
2) Can cause fight
3) Can strain a relationship
4) Can destroy your future
5) Can kill lives
6) Can cause war
7) Can destroy the world
A lot of people didn’t realize the power of words, the power of communication. I list an example. Last month, There is this country (should not say is which country) is planning to try out on radioactive bomb and a couple of countries is trying to stop them from doing it because it will greatly affect the world health issue. Thus, lots and lots of meeting are being held.
Many of my friends ask me “why do you read these old people books (Books on communication)?”
Communication is deadly important because it simply change you from top to toe. Making you into a natural leader in any area of life, where ever you go, only if you know how to apply.
If you are a great communicator, you will
1) be a peacemaker
2) Problem solver
3) Topic twister (in time of needs)
4) A great relationship partner
5) A money sucking machine (In term of career)
6) One that everybody needs (In conference, in politic, in company)
7) Simply shines
To be continue on part 3………………
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
A true love never falls easily because of a little impact. ; 1:08 PM
A true love never falls easily because of a little impact.
On the 16 night, drinking alone outside the room thinking deeply. Thinking what should I do? How should I do?
While I was thinking, everything about you, thinking, thinking and thinking, my mind start to drift away. Suddenly, I think about playing basketball. (What a weird link from you to basketball)
I love playing basketball, although I’m not a good shooter.
Even blocked out by others….
Slam by someone until my nose bleed
Spring my ankle at times…
But after all this, as long as I’m fully recovered, I still go back playing basketball because a true hobby that I have, I don’t give up easily.
Back thinking of you, we didn’t have any road block before along our way. 16June may be the first block we have, maybe a lot more in the future. Why should I give up easily because of a little impact while you are the one I truly love?
真正的喜欢不会因为一点挫折而放弃的。
That my belief.
I know I never work hard enough, sorry darling.
Thursday, June 12, 2008
shut up, if you dont' know how to talk ; 12:13 AM
Shut up, if you don’t know how to talk.
Recently, I have a few friends that got this problem communicating with their friends and relatives. They told me that they simply can’t talk to them because none of them seems to understand what they are talking about, so it ends up quarreling.
So I ask them “how about telling me one example they cause the quarrel?”
Friend A says “I went out with my girlfriend to celebrate our one year anniversary, so we went to Sentosa to play. I want to act romantic la, and then I bring her to siloso beach to have a walk lor.”
Then my girl friend says “Wa, that girl who wear pink bikini so sexy lei. Darling, she so sexy right?”
Friend A say “No la, you more sexy”
Girlfriend say “You say the true lei, I won’t angry one, really. So you can say the truth.”
Friend A “you really want to me to say the truth ah?”
Girlfriend “Yeah, tell me who more sexy. She or me?”
Friend A “She really more sexy then you, you also dun wear bikini let me see one lor.”
So their celebration for anniversary ends like this.
Friend A told me “She wants me to say the truth what, then now she angry. I don’t what she thinking sia.”
I told my friend A this “Is you too stupid la. Please.”
Then I ask my friend B what happen by telling me one example that happen on him.
Friend B say “ yesterday while I was taking bus 52 to go school, then I saw this old lay board the bus and she got no seat. So I decided to give up my seat for her.”
Old lady say “Thank you young boy, that very nice of you!”
Friend B say “Of course, not a lot of youngster like me know how to petty old people like you. You shall have my seat.”
The old lady stands up and walks to the back with the plastic bag and says “Young boy, you are lousy!”
Friend B went blur after that thinking what's wrong had he done.
“Indeed you are lousy, my friend” I said.
To be continue…….and who knows where their problem lies??
Miss my blur blur so much la, friday coming!!
Sunday, June 8, 2008
how ego are you? ; 10:30 PM
How big your ego is?
Yesterday went to watch Kung Fu Panda with my blur blur and bb primers after NDP training. IT SERIOUSLY CUTTEEEEEE, especially the panda! I love panda, I love panda. Especially the facial expression and the way he talks. I give a 4.5 star over 5. Thumb up!
There is this cartoon character name “Tai lang”, a very highly skilled in kung fu is say to be the Kung Fu Warrior but the “Wu Gui” (The master of Kung Fu) see the evil in him and decided not to let Tai lang to be the Kung Fu Warrior and have the secret script of Kung Fu being pass to him.
This cause Tai lang to have a very deep hatred and causes great disaster in the city, he was finally capture down by the Wu Gui and prison for 20 Years.
Some how, he manage to escape from the prison and went for a revenge, even wanted to kill his “Shifu” and anyone that block his way to be the Kung Fu Warrior.
This movie allows me to have a great laugh, seeing my blur blur laughing like mad and that really cute la!
Looking at Tai Lang remind me of myself at the same time. Ever since young, I never wanted to lose because I hate to be a loser in any area of my life, even a simple basketball game. Mummy always says “yee cheng ah, being too egotistic will only bring bad to you.” I never listen; this is a natural character I have in me.
Luckily, I have my religion, my senior that teaches me that this shouldn’t be the way to live, to win. I can’t possibly have the whole world in my hand.
I remember my senior ask me this “How big is your ego?”
“Very big” I said
“What are you ego in?” he asked
“Earning big money, highly status in the society.” I replied proudly. I was only 15 at then.
My mind was filled with big dream, a burning sensation that drives me like nuts. I want to be a millionaire!!! RIGHT NOW!
“Only if you can have your big ego in saving people, making this a better world to live in, then your ego shall grow.” He said and giving a smile.
Egotistic kill life, many many lives I mean. It control human mind that will lost our human moral values, willing to do any things, even killing, murdering of someone, just to win something.
There is this youth leader that says this to us before “you can do bad things if it only harms yourself. If you do bad things that harm others beside yourself, then that a big sin you have to bear.”
How true. Now, if you will to ask me “how ego are you?” I would say I still have very big ego in me but most of it is to saving back the human moral value and people around. Of course, I still have others things that I’m ego in but that normal human being behavior as long as it doesn’t harm anyone around.
So people, how big your ego is?
