Too much of a change
Or maybe I’m the one who change? I’m only 18 this year, not even reaching half way of my life and still having a long way ahead, yet I’m thinking of settling down.
What it mean by settling down? Faster finish my education and getting married, faster build up my own family. Goodness!
Actually there is nothing call “settling down” Changes in life happen every day! Though I’m a person who can adapt to changes easily but I hate changes. Changes make me feel lousy (Bad mood).
I know I couldn’t stop changes in life, new school, new education, new friends, new jobs, changing of girl friend, divorce, re-marry, new place to live in, almost everything.
Changing of your own relative, parent and sibling is out of the question, and I love them. Beside this, there is two things in my life that I hate to have a change
1) Girl friend
2) Close friend
Though I can adapt to changes easily, but to me it kind of tiring. I can’t describe it why but that the fact. If it a good change, then I’m consider lucky, but what if it not? Some people enjoy changes, some people not and I’m the one who don’t like too much of a change in live, maybe I’m old fashion, anything you say.
To the fact that there is too much changes in life, in society and in world, I pray and hope that there is no changes in my love relationship and close friends around me. Because when I’m down in life, when I feel hopeless in life and in my darkest point in life, family, girl friend and friends are the one who will stay with you to pull you through. It loves that make you stand up again. Loves, what a powerful word.
I’m one who is very easy to get contented with, a very simple and sincere praise and encouragement from my family and my girl friend, my mood is good and happy again, and even get motivated by them.
Why so much of change, when they meant important to you?
But when there is a need for change because it doing bad for you, it should be change, BUT if you change just to get some freshness in life then that shouldn’t be the way and hope it doesn’t bring too much trouble for you.
Tips for the day: Changes can be good and bad, but for those that should be staying, it shall stay.
Why compare when we are all human?
Alright, I’m getting sleepy studying in library, so take a rest for now. NDP had just over and I believe all primers who involve as motivators do really had fun over the weekend.
We went to the con-course after the disco celebration at the floating platform, than Anthony and the rest ran over to the area where the wheel chair association gathers because there is a celebrity there too. They ran over to took photo with him and I heard this person said “I don’t know why they are fond to those celebrities, I mean they are also human, what so special about them?”
I was kind of amaze by what that person said, giving me a deep thought in my mind. Okay, just talk about me. I tend to compare, almost everything because I don’t get to enjoy good things while others have it. Though this shouldn’t be the way I feel or think, and with those words I heard from that person, I finally “wake up” from this negative thought I have, for long.
This important person that “wake” me up, I believe she / he is one who appreciate what she have and never ask for more, feeling grateful for what is given to him / her and never compare too much because he /she believe whatever is in you now is consider the best for you, if you were to compare, he /she believe that there are others who is worst then you, isn’t it right?
Just this simple words from that person, it practically change my whole mind set.
That powerful.
知足长乐。。。老一辈都常说 “人比人， 气死人！”
你们认为呢？
Her beauty had gone
Recently, I met up with a friend that has fly oversea 2 years ago and came back for a short holiday. A group of us went to the air port to welcome her back for a short visit, she practically “WOW” us!
What a makeover she has!
In the past, she wears a T-shirt and a pants then she went out. In school, she tucks in her shirt neatly and don’t wear ankle socks. She have a very normal look, didn’t have very good body figure as well. But she is very beautiful in her heart. Good temper, treat everyone nicely, helpful and a very faithful love for her boyfriend. To me, she is beautiful.
Due to some reason, both of them broke up and she slowly went into depression and decides to go oversea to study, but the main reason is to change a totally new environment for her. She gets her depression treatment oversea and went to psychology for counseling.
Last week, she flew back to Singapore! She dress fashionably and behave “nosily”. I asked her why is she so high and she told me that “Who am I in the past had already die.”
I’m shock. My first thought is, what did the psychologist doctor did to her? LOL.
In my eyes, whatever she put up now is just a defense for her. Changes like this make her feel safe and seems impure to others, this is what she thought. She totally buried her initial character deep inside her heart and labels “R.I.P”
The change in her appearance is the first line of defense and follow by a totally change in her behavior is the put up of a perfect makeover so making her totally safe from any harm, thus having a good preparation for her own safety zone. “I feel very happy about myself now” she said.
Yeah, others may think that she’s recover from depression. To me, she haven recover and her newly character is polluting her “environment” This pollution shouldn’t be here, as “natural disaster” will eventually happen if this is to carry on for long.
I agree that everyone will change, to either good or bad. But remember that one shouldn’t have too much of “artificial make up”. Why? Because when you cleanse your make up, you will look bad in your real self because artificial make up destroy your natural beauty. This shouldn’t be the case.
Everyone is unique in their own way, don’t buried your uniqueness just because you think your uniqueness make your life goes tough. Instead, you should find an environment that blend well with your own uniqueness thus making it your home.
Each piece of puzzle have their own match, if this piece of puzzle don't match, don't force it in because it simply don't form the correct picture after all. Since it wrong, find again until it match, eventually a piece of beautiful picture will be complete.
