Her beauty had gone
Recently, I met up with a friend that has fly oversea 2 years ago and came back for a short holiday. A group of us went to the air port to welcome her back for a short visit, she practically “WOW” us!
What a makeover she has!
In the past, she wears a T-shirt and a pants then she went out. In school, she tucks in her shirt neatly and don’t wear ankle socks. She have a very normal look, didn’t have very good body figure as well. But she is very beautiful in her heart. Good temper, treat everyone nicely, helpful and a very faithful love for her boyfriend. To me, she is beautiful.
Due to some reason, both of them broke up and she slowly went into depression and decides to go oversea to study, but the main reason is to change a totally new environment for her. She gets her depression treatment oversea and went to psychology for counseling.
Last week, she flew back to Singapore! She dress fashionably and behave “nosily”. I asked her why is she so high and she told me that “Who am I in the past had already die.”
I’m shock. My first thought is, what did the psychologist doctor did to her? LOL.
In my eyes, whatever she put up now is just a defense for her. Changes like this make her feel safe and seems impure to others, this is what she thought. She totally buried her initial character deep inside her heart and labels “R.I.P”
The change in her appearance is the first line of defense and follow by a totally change in her behavior is the put up of a perfect makeover so making her totally safe from any harm, thus having a good preparation for her own safety zone. “I feel very happy about myself now” she said.
Yeah, others may think that she’s recover from depression. To me, she haven recover and her newly character is polluting her “environment” This pollution shouldn’t be here, as “natural disaster” will eventually happen if this is to carry on for long.
I agree that everyone will change, to either good or bad. But remember that one shouldn’t have too much of “artificial make up”. Why? Because when you cleanse your make up, you will look bad in your real self because artificial make up destroy your natural beauty. This shouldn’t be the case.
Everyone is unique in their own way, don’t buried your uniqueness just because you think your uniqueness make your life goes tough. Instead, you should find an environment that blend well with your own uniqueness thus making it your home.
Each piece of puzzle have their own match, if this piece of puzzle don't match, don't force it in because it simply don't form the correct picture after all. Since it wrong, find again until it match, eventually a piece of beautiful picture will be complete.
