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Just came back from Challengers camp yesterday and when to Rong Sheng house for his prayer hall anniversary and during the time when Rong sheng's mother is giving a short speech, I was moved by what she said.
She said that she wasn’t good at talking so she will just give a simple speech but there is this sentence that really caught my heart.
“When I was young, it teacher and parent that took care of me, when I was a young adult, it my husband that take care of me and now I’m old, it God that take care of me, I’m please with my life now.”
Expressing ourselves is very important, maybe some will feel that it isn’t important and assume they know how you feel. Or take it that they know how you feel but expressing your feeling through words and action continuously at some time is very important as well, it actually enhances the relationship literally. Words of comfort and actions of love are the power to everything, or almost I should say.
Why is it so?
It kind of a natural mindset that we like people to admit or acknowledge our effort or presence for what we do for them. So don’t take it that they are trying to seek attention or trying to be proud, but as appreciation.
Maybe others will think this way.
I have brain, I have money, I have the look and I don’t need all this. What words of comfort, action of love? I don’t understand, I have lots of suitor, I have my parent to love me, I don’t lack of love.
NEVER EVER handle your relationship with others as though you are doing political works. It never work, there is a lot of blind spot in our life that we often over look, a small action, a little praising are every drop of sincerity that you drip into others heart that make a different in everyone as well as in you.
Tips for the day= Expressing your words of comfort and actions of love is just like adding MSG to enrich your relationship with others. But never add too much because the receiver might feel tire of it one day, do it at the right time, right place, and with the right person. The three R formula.
