The power of forgiving
Finally, I’m back sitting to my study table once again after school had reopened. Oh god, I’m table is in a mess but what caught my attention is those small notes that I paste on my table top. I like to write words of advice onto a small piece of paper and paste on my table top whenever it strikes my mind and I’m looking through now again.
Today I’m going to share one of my notes that I wrote it last year.
“学会接受别人的道歉也就等于给他人一个机会改变自己”
“One who’s willing to accept others apologies, is one who’s also willing to give others a chance for a change in their mistake.”
It doesn’t cost any for a single word like sorry, thank you; please forgive me or whatever but it does carry a deep meaning, responsibility and a sense of appreciation in all words like this.
When words like this come out from your mouth, how much sincerity there is, the one who is receiving are able to weight it, whether you mean what you say or just for the sake of saying?
Even though all this words doesn’t require a single cents but the interesting thing is that, there are people who just can’t say it whenever they made a mistake. So they repay by giving money, gift or helps that are needed. But But But, that may not be the suffering party who want it, what they need isn’t all this.
It a sincere apologies instead.
A sincere apology may dissolve a deep hatred, a deep anger. A sincere thank you may worth more than a single bar of gold. What important is, are you willing to accept and forgive their apologies? Which make another different for those whose in fault, are they able to step out their guilt or not? It all depends.
Forgiving others is a great power for those who made a mistake, you are able to control whether to keep the guilt in them or not. Guilt is able to kill life or depress for the whole life and some rather to torture those in fault to repay by guilt. How scary it can be?
Forgiving others is a great power for those who made a mistake, you are able to renew their life and pull them out of darkness and guilt. World is full of hopes and colour, it a brand new them again. How merciful it can be?
Be GENEROUS in your words of praise and comfort because all this make up a thumb up life for others. SMILE because of love.
