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Sunday, June 21, 2009

Building happiness ; 11:09 PM

Maybe they know the answer to happiness.............

Building your happiness

“I pay you $150 and I want you to make me happy.”

“I buy you whatever you want, I will give you all I have and I only want you to give me happiness.”

“You are my only happiness, don’t ever leave me.”

Tell me, for all the 3 choices above. Choose one that you think that will give you real happiness, if it really does.

There are big parts of the population outside fighting for their happiness; some even spend their whole life searching for it. I believe everybody have different meaning to their real happiness. Some believe in finding happiness in GOD, some believe in money and a lot more such as true love, luxuries, hot babe, eating, having children. ETC.

I remember reading a book or hearing someone told me before which I can’t really remember where I learn from saying “When you depend on someone or something for your real happiness, prepare to feel sad and disappointed.”

This quote above has to depend on your view to believe whether it true or not and I personally believe it. At the same time I also want to know, who and what give me the real happiness. Ask yourself, have you found your happiness? Who / what is it that gives you this real happiness. And my next question is “Does this real happiness of yours stays?”

And what if it disappears one day?

Am reading this book, people person by John C. Maxwell, he say “The happiest people are those who have invested time in others. The unhappiest people are those who wonder how the world is going to make them happy.

Karl Menninger, the great psychiatrist, was asked what a lonely, unhappy person should do. He said, “Lock the door behind you, go across the street, find someone who is hurting, and help them.” Forget about yourself to help others.

What is your definition to happiness?

I enjoy calling a few friends out to chill for a coffee to enjoy some wind and do some chatting and catch up. Taking in a few deep breath and PHEWWWW, it makes me feel that all the breath that I took in and breathe it out are all stresses and pressure, then relaxation live in me. Sometimes thinking, am I taking the right path to happiness? And where am I heading to?

Hey people out there, let me share my thoughts with you but I’m not sure if I’m right. Some of you may live a very busy life style or some will live a normal one and some even a lifeless one, do remember to come a point of thought

“What am I doing in my life, are all this really going to bring me something special?”

“What’s life really all about? And how does it even help me?”

In fact, everyone have their own definition of being happy for life. Some can found happiness in doing dessert? Or by doing a small business just to get a living and own a happy family. And that all they wanted.

To make a conclusion, it important for you to know and understand what you want and by looking back for all you are doing now, are you moving toward to your desire? See your VISION for the future.

Tips for the day: A real happiness doesn’t leave you even after your death because it suppose to live in your soul and mind. If it does, I guess you got the wrong one.